Wedding proposals are among some of the very special moments in people's lives so I wanted to go above and beyond of just taking still photographs and wanted to add some videography as a little bonus.
Since Anthony was going to surprise Anais with the wedding proposal, I almost hesitated adding video for it could potentally ruin the surprise. Why? It's hard to hide a video camera....... that is on a tripod........ in a park.... in a location that screams....."dude, out of all the places in the park, why set up right there with nothing around?"
Kinda like sticking out like a sore thumb!!
BUT, I had a plan!!!!
I had a plan!!
I agreed to meet Anthony at 3pm at this incredible little park.
I had actually driven right by the park and had to ask a local man out on a walk where this special park was located.
It's a tiny oasis of a park with some green grass that leads up to
It's a total hole-in-the-wall and probably one of LA's
Good because of the stunning view.
Bad because it's popular.
The night before and days leading up to this special day, I was having anxious thoughts of crowds and photobombers and of people sleeping on the benches. I had a plan!!!
Bring a few bucks to give to the person on the bench in order to vacate it for the couple.
(Remember planning is key!!! Even though I didn't need it, I had a couple of $20 dollar bills in my back pocket, just in case!!)
Back to the park.
The way this park is configured, it is very obvious
My plan: I brought a foldable beach chair with me and a couple of blankets, as well as my camera bag and a back pack. Going camping? (hehe)
It looked really odd, but I had the beach chair with the back to the park bench. Odd because the great view was behind me.
I also had to position myself close enough to the couple so that I could perhaps intercept anyone wanting to go and look out of the view of DTLA. My eyes were darting left and right looking for people approaching. Kinda exhausting. But worth it!!
I covered my camera bag with a blanket and then I set my video camera on a tripod and placed a black blanket over it.
I also placed a couple of bags on the bench in order to secure it for as long as I could before the couple arrived.
Anthony and I did some run throughs.
A couple of high school students sat on the bench behind us.
And then a couple more high school students came along and went down the slope so they could, well, let us just say, they liked
The high schoolers left, and then some more gals came and sat on the bench to take some photos with a selfie-stick.
Anthony and I continued practising to see which knee he would go down to. Left knee down or right knee down?
We had to do a couple of run throughs so it would be smooth and natural for when the big time came!!
From my experience (I'll save that story for another time,)
I told him to go to the knee that he feels most comfortable.
(BTW, I went down on my right knee.)
Anthony left at 4pm to pick up Anais.
He told me that he would text me at the parking lot when he returned with her. The walk from the parking lot to the bench was 3 minutes. That would give me time to do my final preparations.
I did some final checks with my camera to make sure the ISO, the shutter speed and f-stop were good-to-go!!
And then completely out of nowhere, this lady walks towards me with a camera and tripod. Eeeek!!! My heart started pounding!! T minus 3 minutes!!! We chatted for a second and I told her that in a couple of minutes there would be a wedding proposal and if she would be so kind as to move. She was totally understanding and would take a few more photos of DTLA (downtown LA) for her....get this....photography class!! Click, click and she left.
Where did she go? Ohhh, about 200 yards away to the other side of the park. Facing where? You guessed it. The bench where the couple were coming to. So much for hiding a camera.
Around 4:20 pm I got the text message that Anthony was with Anais in the parking lot. I texted back, "K" because I'm young and cool like that!!! heheee
Problem: Sunset was at 4:47pm which means it was getting darker and darker, literally by the minute. This meant that I had to make a quick last minute adjustment of the exposure setting on both my video and on my camera to make sure that everything
I covered up the camera and video camera and took out my monthly subscription to "Success" magazine to pretend that I was reading, all the while with my back to the bench and to the couple that were approaching the bench.
This amazing location overlooks Downtown LA and you can get a glimpse of Disney Hall. When the couple arrived at the bench, the natural thing to do is to sit down. To get Anais to stand up from being seated on the bench, and to give me a heads up to get ready, Anthony would ask Anais, "Where is Disney Hall?"
Disney was our code word.
The problem: Anthony doesn't speak loudly and why would he if he was within inches of Anais? Solution: I used my cellphone and put it on "selfie" mode. This way, with my back to the couple, I could "pretend" that I was taking a selfie, but I was actually using the screen as a mirror to see what the couple was doing.
To be honest, I couldn't hear a word, because my next immediate focus was on a couple happily throwing around a rugby ball, totally unaware of the wedding proposal, y'up.......walking straight towards us!!! (More on this in a few paragraphs.)
Since I saw Anthony and Anais were now standing, it was game time. It was time to start taking pictures.
I wanted to capture real-life imagery and heartfelt emotion.
When people know that a camera is fixed on them, sometimes their reactions can be somewhat contrived and fake.
So I nimbly and quietly moved up and down taking as many photographs from as many angles as possible,
Spiderman!! (Sound better than Flyman. hehehee)
And remember this is a public park and just like Murphy's law says: "If something can go wrong, it will."
Back to the rugby ball couple. Out of the corner of my eye I see a couple with a rugby ball being tossed in the air coming towards us. This happened right as I pressed record on the video camera. How could I tell the couple, unbeknownst to them, that a wedding proposal was in progress?
I managed to establish eye contact with the girl who had just caught the rugby ball. With hand gestures I signaled "stop" and pointed to Anthony and Anais. I smiled and the couple understood and stopped in their tracks, yet still out of sight from Anthony and Anais. This was good because if they had walked just two or three more steps forward, (in front of a tree that was hiding them,) this might have attracted Anais's attention and caused her to look over at them, and while doing so, she could have inadverently seen me with this bazooka of a lens. (run on sentence)
Making the most of the situation and having a positive, can-do attitude, I merrily clicked away.
Anthony had gotten on his right knee and proposed to Anais.
Anais didn't have a clue about this surprise, and she didn't see me until Anthony pointed me out. Hooray. Hooray.
What a great couple!!
Anais & Anthony
Engaged on Dec. 8th, 2015
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Just saw this photo (below) on Instagram of a man proposing......
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